Steven traveled to KY with Monieca and me to visit our families this past weekend and he ended up driving the whole way. I was on medication because of vertigo and was in no shape to drive. So I slept, listened to the radio, and talked with our son during Thursday evening’s six hour trip. Sitting in the passenger seat (an unusual experience for me) I recalled the many times my dad and I drove to the lake in TN to fish. I never knew why, but for some reason he usually wanted me to drive. It was the only time I remember him being a “passenger”.

Dad died not many years after those fishing trips. He was only 54 and those trips together are precious memories.

I’m sure Steven will remember our trip…mostly because a big truck in front of us on the interstate in VA hit a deer. As the deer was falling, Steven swerved but we still managed to run over it with the front passenger tire. Damage to the car was very minor – but it was definitely a memorable experience.

I also believe our time together added to his memory bank of life with mom and dad. For years people have debated the value of quality time vs quantity time in relationships, but the truth is – both matter.

Both also require that we be intentional…that we make choices. I encourage you this Thanksgiving season to take a moment and reflect on both the quality and the quantity of time you’re giving to those you love most. It’s how we create really good memories.

Pastor Steve Hogg